Sadness

 

 Just get back up, like you always do.

Hello again, it's Saturday (gone) again, it's Sunday today! Yay! Ahh alright, kinda sad that another weekend is coming to an end, but I'm sure the next one is coming soon hehe. Well when it comes to work, you will seriously treasure the value of a weekend. Sure, you love weekends during school too. But trust me when you work, it's even more valuable.

But well, not sure if my weekend counts as a weekend.

Anyway, emo title? Yes but no but well, alright let me talk about sadness today. Let me discuss about it. Well for the whole day today I was feeling moody. And I seriously don't know why, like seriously. I suppose it's "that time of the month again" and well I somehow always have it. Once a month, there's always a day where I'll feel sad for no reason.

I suppose being sad is really a norm in life? We all know that life is like a roller coaster. There's the up moments, the down moments and so on. And thus when we're sad we're just really in that down side of life and just like any other roller coaster ride a down moment is always followed by an up moment. Unless you want your roller coaster ride to hit the ground (yikes).

And somehow we're told that it's not good to be sad. But I beg to differ.

I think it's really alright to be sad. To just be sad, to go into your room and be sad. Switch off the lights, shut off your world with music and feel sad. To drown yourself in sorrow and just be sad. Be sad as much as you can and as you want. It's really fine to be sad.

Just make sure that you get back up again, like you always do.

I always remember the song Mausam by Nithin Sawhney. One of the lines from the lyric is translated as "too much of sadness, or happiness is not good for you my friend". Something along that line. Which is very true. So the next time you feel sad, just feel sad. Just tell yourself is alright to feel sad. But remind yourself that you can't be sad all the time.

I suppose in life, nowadays we've forgotten to be "negative". Well I mean of course, please don't be negative. But I refer to the fact that we've forgotten to taste the bitterness in life. We search for the sweet things but when we got something bitter we feel like as if no, it's unacceptable, I won't eat it, I'm not gonna taste it.

Just like how we launch a complain to a restaurant if their food isn't up to standard.

Life isn't made out of sugar. It's a mix of things we taste and savour and just like any other food, we won't want to eat one food and one food only for the rest of our lives, yeah? So it's good to taste bitterness at times, just make sure you don't taste it for the rest of your life but learn the bitterness so the next time you come across with it, you're not that shocked.

Just remember, to get back up again like you always do!