Saturday 25 January 2020

Happy Chinese New Year of The Rat!

Happy Chinese New Year of The Rat from the uncles and aunties of Baros United!

Hello hello, first of all just wanna wish you a Happy Chinese New Year of the rat! May you have a wonderful and prosperous year, 祝大家鼠新年快乐!希望大家身体健康,万事如意,心想事成!

Also may everyone has a -perb year ahead mwahaha.

It's been a rainy first day of the rat year. I had the usual family reunion yesterday with my aunts, uncle and cousins. And this time round, my nephews and nieces haha. Had the usual reunion lunch and then followed by some beer-session at night with my cousins and uncle. Did the CNY eve prayer and then the angpao-exchange haha. I just realised I'm no longer behind my cousin for receiving angpao, cause he's now married! So I'm next in line according to age. Oh dear.

Today was a pretty rainy day. Had some relatives and guests over to our house as usual. 

I think as I grow older, I just enjoy the simplicity of gatherings more. It's not the glitz and glams of festivities that I look forward to in each celebration. But the simplicity of just being around my family, the chatter of people talking, the discussion with my cousins and relatives. Because I think the presence of family is much more grandeur than the celebration itself. As I grow older that is.

Being an Asian who still upholds traditions has it perks too. To me Asian celebration and fesitivites are great times for family to gather together. If it's not for these celebrations, we wouldn't probably gather together eh? Unless there's special occasion like weddings, births of babies and... Funerals.

Alright I guess that's all from me for now. It's a Saturday night and I wanna chill a bit! See you soon.

Saturday 18 January 2020

Easy

It's the 18th day of the month and oh it feels good not to fret over the number of posts every month! Hahaha. Usually by this date I would freak over how little my number of posts is, but hey, I've decided not to limit myself anyway so yep. Anyway, today I'm gonna talk about my plans for this blog in this new year. And new era you can say. What I'm going to do, and not going to no longer do.

So yes as I mentioned I won't be "targeting" myself with a number of post per month/year. I was actually planning to at least blog 50 posts in a year but meh, I can't promise myself either so yep. I think I shouldn't promise something I may not fulfill. Also it goes against my idea of not targeting myself haha.

Secondly no more music of the month. I might do music of the year at the end of each year, but for not I'm going to do this monthly list in my journal. Cause yeah I don't think I wanna do on both!

Okay so that's for what I'm not going to continue doing. Here's what I'm gonna do!

As usual I will post some great music that I discovered in the month, or any interesting music/music video that I come across with. And not forgetting some photos that I took as well.

And I might try to write more thoughtful and planned-out posts. And yes, I might share it on my social media. Not sure if this is a good idea or not but I don't know why I have this feeling of wanting to share my stories more to other people. Who knows I'll be a famous blogger one day. Dream on Adhi.

I will still post about my travels/trips to places. And I'm thinking of writing more random posts? Like just a daily life kind of post. I think it's what I was planning to make my blog about - a place where I write about my memories, so that I can read them back again in the future. I was recently reading my old posts and it's quite fun! Writing about random things and events that happened heh.

Alright I guess that's all for now. Whew it feels good not to pressurise yourself mwahaha. Anyway I got myself another new journal too and I've been thinking about plans on how to fill it. I'm glad that I managed to fill my 2019 journal even though I thought I was going to have a difficult time finishing it but nope. Lets just continue the tradition in 2020 I guess. This is the 10th year that I'm journaling!

I hope 2020 has been starting well for you. Have a great week/remaining of January ahead guys :)

Saturday 11 January 2020

Terribly Short Weekend

Right, lets talk about my recent trip to Singapore! As the title says, and as what I previously blogged, it's such a terribly short trip haha, or at least it felt like a really short weekend! Anyway I landed at 12 PM this time. Went straight to the hotel and just chilled for a while (also catching some sleep) before heading out to meet Jes and Ade for dinner. Thankfully Jes was on her way from work too so we met in City Hall. So good to see her again. Or I mean, to see Mrs Foo again mwahaha.

We went to JEM for dinner and decided to eat at Din Tai Fung. Thanks to Jes' heads-up, we can actually veganise some items on the menu! Okay not applicable to all items. We started with the liang-cai (which is really good by the way) and the veggie dumplings. Ade came then and we ordered some food. I ordered the gan-ban mian and it was made vegan. They just use a different sauce I think.

Is it too early for yusheng? No

After that we decided to.... Lao Yu Sheng Hahaha. Ok lah it's been 7 years since I last lao yu sheng and it was quite a fun thing to do haha. Everyone was looking at us. Perhaps it's too early but who cares, Christmas is over! :P Thanks Ade and Jes for the dinner, it was great to meet with you both again! Feels like the old times when we would have dinner together. Then we went to Paris Baguette for dessert.

Here's to 14 years of friendship <3

It was so funny cause I asked the guy if they have vegan options and he blatantly said no haha (of course Adhi). So I just ordered their yuzu drink. Had a really lovely chat with the two of them and... Whew I'm just really flabbergasted by how fast time is flying. We're all adults now and we're talking about adult stuff! Work, life, relationships and so on. Sometimes I still see the two of them as my secondary school friends but well, we're all adults now really. Thanks Adeline and Jeslyn for the meetup! It's great to see both of you again. See you soon when I'm back alright.

Always a good time seeing both of them!

On Saturday I went to do some shopping first in the early afternoon to buy stuff for my parents and siblings. Dropped them at the hotel again and headed out to meet Jolene and Tacy! Met them at this vegan cafe that I've been wanting to try called Well Dressed Salad Bar and Cafe. Had a delicious tofu "egg" sandwich and also two slices of cakes that's really good. Did the usual catch up and it's always a good time seeing both of them! Hopefully Pao can join us the next time :)

After that I went for dinner with Vithya and Charmaine. Gosh it's been 2 years since I last see both of them! Felt so good to be reunited with them again. We had a delicious dinner at Daehwa Korean vegetarian restaurant in Fusionopolis. We had the army stew and it was delicious!! Wow first army stew in don't know how long haha. They have vegan luncheon meat and it tastes almost like the real thing *gasps*. We also have some side dishes like the usual kimchi pancake and tangsuyuk? It's supposed to be battered chicken but mushroom is used instead. Very very delicious dinner indeed.

We devoured that. Mmhmm

We then headed to Holland for drinks. And Wow Holland changed so much! The last time I went there was also 2 years ago when I met Vithya. We went to look around for places to drink and decided to go for The Pit. Same place where we drank the last time mwahaha. We went to 3 different bars actually! And ended up at Wala. Can't believe we actually drank from 7 PM to 1 AM. Probably the longest time I've actually drank haha. Nevertheless I had a great time with them. As usual talking about life and updating what's going on in our lives. I've known them for a decade now, crazy!

Lesson learned: take a photo before drinking hahaha

Kinda sad to think that the next time we'll meet again will probably be in either end of this year or next year again. But well I'm just proud on how far we've all come and thankful for this decade of friendship. Even though we're in two different countries! Especially to Vithya, someone I'm really thankful of crossing paths with. I'm just thankful to have a good friend like her whom I can openly talk to about a lot of things. It's sad that it's hard for both of us to meet and I'll always try to see her when she's in town. All the best for your studies and project in Australia. We will see each other again when you're back! <3

Reunited with the DBS bunch again!

Last but not least I met the DBS bunch for lunch on my last day! Wow it's been 7 years since we all met. The last time we met was during graduation hahaha. Except for Minli whom I met 2 years back too. So good to see everyone again and to see that you're all doing great! Okay especially to Zaki who literally went off the radar hahaha. Brought them to eat at Nom V Nom which is a vegan burger joint. I hope they enjoyed the food! Feels good to meet everyone again, especially when we haven't met for a very long time. Reminiscing the good old days and catching up with everyone.

Special shoutout to Syazwan, all the best for your big day ok :D

Yup that's all for my really short weekend in Singapore. After lunch I headed out to the airport (thanks Bobby for the lift to Funan!) and that's all for my trip. I actually enjoy this trip because it doesn't feel rushed. Nice pace to it haha. Okay maybe I used to meet as many people as I can in 3 days but now I pace them out. Also I just recently met some of them on September so I swapped my schedule here and there. I think I have to accept the fact that I'm getting old and I'm not as "agile" as I used to be 4-5 years ago haha. I used to meet some people for breakfast!

Thank you to everyone for the meet-up on this awesome albeit short weekend. What a great way to start the year indeed! I'm not sure when I'm gonna come back to Singapore again but as always, 

see you when I see you again, Singapore! :)

Tuesday 7 January 2020

Back again

Hello, I just returned from a short trip to Singapore back on Sunday! I went there for a weekend from Friday and it truly felt like a really short trip haha. Had a wonderful time reuniting with some of my friends, some of whom I haven't met in 7 years! And also felt awesome to be reunited with Vithya again after two years. Decided to go back to SG for a trip and also to meet her while she's in town.

I just spent the past two days finishing work and doing some unpacking (I haven't finished unpacking!) and I will blog about my trip soon. I need to sort out the photos too heh.

Anyway this trip flew by quickly. Which really made me think about the fact that... If a year flew by like a breeze, I'm pretty sure 3 days flew by even more quickly too. So yeah. Tempus fugit!

I will see you soon about the trip alright. 

Wednesday 1 January 2020

Happy New Year 2020!

Hello hello, first of all wishing you a happy new year 2020! I can't believe we're back in the twenties again now haha. Well I hope 2020 will be a better year than 2019, and that it will be filled with joy, hope and as always, mindfulness! May we all be given courage, patience and wisdom to move forward in this new year, and let us all march forward together towards the horizon. Whew, can't believe a decade just went by like that. And here we are now, another new one. I wonder how it's gonna be.

Well nobody knows the answer to that except for time itself. But let us all take this decade day by day, week by week, month by month and eventually year by year. I'd love to quote Dr Seuss:

"So be sure when you step
step with care and great tact
and remember that
Life's a Great Balancing Act!
Just never forget to be dexterous and deft
And never mix up your right foot with your left"

From my favourite poem: Oh The Places You'll Go.

Anyway as mentioned last year (oh gosh last year felt so long ago haha), I won't be setting myself goals for this blog in 2020. I will not have a minimum number of post in a year and so on. But I do have plans on what I wanna do this time round. And that will be for another separate post.

Alright that's all from me on this first post of 2020! Okay I swear I've been enjoying saying "Twenty Twenty" the past 24 hours haha. Such a cool name for a year. And definitely my last 20s :P

Here's to a Terrific Twenty Twenty ahead folks!